Fong Toe Lee

7/21/1940 - 11/9/2025

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Obituary For Fong Toe Lee

Fong Toe Lee passed away peacefully on November 9, 2025, surrounded by his family and loved ones. He was 85 years old. Born in Guangzhou, China, on July 21, 1940, Fong was the youngest of eleven siblings and the last to reunite with them in spirit.

Fong is survived and missed by his wife Jenny Lee, of 57 years; and his children and their families, Kevin and Sabrina Lee, Hillen Lee and Dan Morgan, and Yinnie Lee and Chung Chan. He is also remembered by his five grandchildren, Kendall Yu, Kassidy Yu, Andrea Lee, Alex Lee, and Hailey Chan.

Fong earned his degree in Mechanical Engineering from the prestigious Southern China Institute of Technology (华南理工学院). After graduation, he moved to LuoYang, HeNan, where he began his career at China First Tractor Manufacturing. It was there that he met his wife, Li Chuan (Jenny Lee). They married and raised three children—Kevin, Hillen, and Yinnie—before immigrating to the United States in 1983 to build a brighter future for their family. Kevin retired from Intel as a Layout Design Engineer, Hillen is a Vice President of Sales at Procter & Gamble, and Yinnie is a Solutions Architect at Synopsys. His family was his life’s greatest joy and source of pride.

Those who knew Fong will remember his gentle heart, quiet humor, and unwavering generosity. Though frugal with himself, he was endlessly giving to others, often slipping red envelopes to his children, grandchildren, nieces, and nephews with a twinkle in his eye. He was happiest when his family gathered to celebrate milestones, holidays, and one another. Fittingly, his final day was spent celebrating his youngest daughter Yinnie’s birthday, surrounded by his entire family.

Fong found joy in simple pleasures: taking daily walks with Jenny, chatting with friends at the park, playing the harmonica, and keeping up with the news. A pillar of kindness and wisdom in his community, he was a trusted friend to many newly arrived immigrants, always ready to offer advice, assistance, or a ride when needed.

His legacy is one of love, family, humility, and generosity. Fong taught everyone around him the importance of caring for others and cherishing each moment together.

A celebration of Fong’s life will be held at 12:00 p.m. on Sunday, December 21, 2025, with Santa Cruz Sea Spirit Memorial. His ashes will be scattered in the ocean so that his loved ones may feel his presence wherever the waves may reach. Following the service, family and friends are invited to gather at Hillen and Dan’s home in Aptos, California, from 3:00 p.m. onward.

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  • 11/19/2025

    舅父,小時候覺得你非常的嚴肅,長大了,見證你是一個非常和藹可親的舅父,一個非常優秀的父親和丈夫.. 冇辦法再從你的口中聽到更加多利家家族的故事,但我可以見到從你身上閃爍的光芒去引證這一個又一個的故事.. 非常慶幸可以在上個月還可以和你見面及聊天,你依然是我心目中偉大及引以為豪的舅父.. 你終於可以回家了,去和你的父母和哥哥及姊姊們會合了! 天堂無痛苦,願你一路好走🩷 姨甥 泰浩 敬輓

  • 11/16/2025

    記憶中的舅父是一個充滿活力和能量的智者,年輕時代学业顶尖之外,精力充沛,爱好运动,是大家心目中的阳光象征,小時候聽我爸媽說過舅舅年青時经常暢游珠江,排球藍球樣樣精通(常與他一齊参加打球玩耍的毛孩鄰居张德雄后来成為蓝球国手,退役后更成为中国职业联盟的冠军教练),幻想一下,如果舅舅身高再長高十多公分的話,或者我們家族也會出個運動名宿😂, 退休後的舅父,每天都堅持運動,熱衷於參考老人社区活動,唱歌跳舞熱心帮助新移民,更成為社区众人中尊敬的利大哥..... 舅父,您的哥哥姐姐們会和您在天上團聚,可以谈天说地,畅聚一堂。请放心,舅父,护理院中的承諾我一定会做到,不用挂心,天堂沒有病痛,您的兒女們会好好照顧舅母的,願您一路走好 Rest at Peace,舅父🙏🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷 姨甥 泰煒 敬輓

  • 11/14/2025

    兒時因為中港分隔和文革年代只能在母親和十姨口中聽到在洛陽生活的細舅父,只是常見到經常來港的大舅父。 直至大学畢業後,細舅父是和藹的的国內工程師,喜歡和我訢說国內的政治和歷史和自己的見解。最難忘的,是他的聲音限大舅父是一毛一樣,百分百的兩兄弟。 舅父,願您主懷安息,榮歸天家。舅媽身體健康,多多保重。Deepest condolences to 舅媽,cousins Kevin, Hillen and Yinnie and their families. May Uncle 11 rest in peace. 姨甥 叔翺

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