Paul Gene Tallarico

4/16/1938 - 4/11/2020

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Obituary For Paul Gene Tallarico

Paul Gene Tallarico was born on April 16, 1938 in Oakland and passed away on April 11, 2020 in Fremont at the age of 81 at Washington Hospital.

He started working right after graduating High School in 1956 .With his dedication and hard work was promoted to Senior Designer at RPC Hayward and LAM Resources until his retirement.

Recognized for his 15 years of service volunteering at Fremont Senior Center from 2001 to 2016 Paul played banjo on his spare time, very passionate about collecting vintage model trains and cars. He enjoyed listening to jazz & classical music, reading history books and watching classic movies.

Paul had an awesome sense of humor that make people laugh. He will be greatly missed.

He is survived by his beloved wife Phey Reyes Tallarico, his loving cousins, Jimmy & Martha, Lorie, Mary (Tata) & Eric, Sonny(John) & Dianne, Sharon & Bill, Roy & Kay, Vivian D., Donna, Kathy & Bill, Lois , Saul and best friend since childhood Pierre Joseph and partner Donna, all of whom he regularly kept in touch with as much as he could. Paul was very close to his family.

Paul’s legacy of caring for his mother and others before himself will live on in our hearts.

A celebration of life will be planned for a later date when it’s safe to be with family & friends together again to hug.

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  • 10/01/2021

    Happy Birthday Paul in heaven. Thank you for the good memories:pray:

  • 10/01/2021

    I’ve known Paul years before he was married to my best friend Phey. I will always remember him being very kind and respectful towards me. He had a great sense of humor and would share entertaining stories of his past. I will definitely miss him dearly.

  • 10/01/2021

    Cousin Paul will be missed. We shared so many family get togethers at Daisy and Sock’s house in Piedmont. In his later years, he was always there to lend an ear and send holiday greetings. My deepest sympathy to Phey, who made him very happy. Rest in Peace...Lorie Tallarico

  • 10/01/2021

    This photo was taken on June 2011, when my good friend Paul attended my graduation party. I've known him for about 10 years through my best friend Phey. He's been mentoring me especially regarding my relationship with my fiancé. I remember, the last time I saw him was when I was looking for my wedding venue, and he told me he was very excited to witness our wedding. I will miss our long conversations, his trust on me fixing his computer, and his funny jokes. I am grateful to be able to make a tribute video for his birthday on the 16th of April, 2018. Rest in peace, my dear friend. We’ll take good care of Phey.

  • 10/01/2021

    Dear Phey, My love and deepest sympathy in the loss of your dear Paul. The following is a short version of my prayer to you... “I am home in Heaven, dear ones; Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty In the everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, Every restless tossing passed; I am now at peace forever, Safely home in Heaven at last.” From: Dorothy Ferreira:bouquet:

  • 10/01/2021

    Dear Phey, my love and deepest sympathy in the loss of dear Paul. The following is a short version of my prayer to you. “ I am home in Heaven, dear ones; Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed; I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last.” From: Dorothy Ferreira:bouquet:

  • 10/01/2021

    To all relatives and friends, thank you for sharing good memories of my dearest PAUL. No words can express the sympathy I received from each one of you, even though we know how difficult our situation is because of Covid19. I am grateful for the comfort, prayers, and kindness. All are deeply appreciated. Since my dear husband Paul’s passing, I feel lost everyday, and it’s getting harder and harder. I asked God a lot of questions. Why did He let this happen to us? Why didn’t He give a me chance to say goodbye when Paul can still hear my voice? I feel so lost everyday. But as I read all the messages, all the pictures and memories you shared, I am reminded of how Paul had influenced our lives. God always makes mysterious way to comfort His child, and He uses all of you so I wouldn't be alone. Now, I understand that He just gave me some time to talk to my husband alone. Thank you so much for the love and care. I truly appreciated the warm words of comfort. You are all so kind. Sincerely, Phey Tallarico

  • 10/01/2021

    We couldn’t believe the fact that you’re no longer here, but with all the memories of you will always be in our hearts. Thank you so much for being such a wonderful person to our family. We will miss you and may you Rest In Peace Paul.

  • 10/01/2021

    Thank you so much Paul for these memories. They say things end but good memories last forever. Rest in peace Paul... you are gone but not forgotten.

  • 10/01/2021

    We are deeply saddened of the passing of our friend Paul. His warmest smile and great hospitality made us plan to visit him and Phey again this year, but time restricts it to happen.. Sadly, but the Lord God had a better place for him, you will truly be missed. Sending prayers for you and your love ones:pray::pray::pray:

  • 10/01/2021

    This photo was taken 2 years ago on my golden birthday party, I remember Paul having fun trying all different masks. Don’t be deceived by his looks, he is very playful, fun and had a great sense of humor. You will be sorely missed , journey well Paul. :pray:

  • 10/01/2021

    Rest in Peace Paul.

  • 10/01/2021

    I worked with Paul when I first started Lam back in 1996. He was my supervisor and mentored me for a short time. I'm sorry for your loss.

  • 10/01/2021

    God bless you Phey for bringing joy to his life. Wish I stayed in contact with him but know this, he left a little bit of him in all that knew him. I heard he married and regret not seeing you two together....peace be with you.

  • 10/01/2021

    Our deepest condolences

  • 10/01/2021

    May he Rest In Peace

  • 10/01/2021

    Rest in peace Paul, joined now in heaven with Cousin Albert. I will miss you. Much love, Lois Blazic (Albert's wife)

  • 10/01/2021

    We were in Oakley California at the house of Ryan Manalo. Rey & Merla expresses our prayers and support. Paul will be remembered in our hearts. May our good Lord strengthened you in the midst of pain, comforted you with many shared memories. God reminded us, "To live is Christ and to die is gain."Philippians 1:21.

  • 10/01/2021

    We were in Oakley California at the house of Ryan Manalo. Rey & Merla expresses our prayers and support. Paul will be remembered in our hearts. May our good Lord strengthened you in the midst of pain, comforted you with many shared memories. God reminded us, "To live is Christ and to die is gain."Philippians 1:21.

  • 10/01/2021

    What an absolute wonderful human being Paul was. I will always remember his countless ways of making me laugh. He had a great sense of humor and a friendly and kind demeanor. I can still remember him telling me at Ryan’s recent house warming party, to “simply just enjoy life!” It was just me and him. We were outside of the front door, the two of us just hanging out! Breaking bread ...Without any alcoholic beverages needed. Lol! (Joke for Paul) I also liked how he respected my automotive hobby. He understood that I was a car kind of guy and I was fortunate enough to gain his trust and drive his car that day. He was speechless when I knew how to use all the functions of his luxury vehicle.... Or maybe he was just concerned that in reality I was actually driving his car? (Another joke for Paul) Lol! My dear friend Paul and I shared conversations like no other. From providing me history lessons, motivation, educating me on life, sharing his life experiences, hobbies, his love for trains, his love for family, friends, and of course his ever lasting love for his lovely wife, Phey. Me being a “tad bit” younger than him, currently at 37 years of age, Lol! ....(I can picture him laughing out loud at this comment) He never once judged me for who I am, how I looked with tattoos, how at times we agree to disagree on certain topics, and he never once criticized my goals and accomplishments in life. He was an optimistic person who always had a positive attitude. I will always hold his friendship and memory deep in my heart. He will forever be missed. May you rest in peace my friend. Big Will

  • 10/01/2021

    This photo was taken on January 11, 2020, when my good friend Paul attended my housewarming. I've known him for about 10 years through my best friend Phey. He's been mentoring me especially regarding my relationship with my fiancé. I remember, the last time I saw him was when I was looking for my wedding venue, and he told me he was very excited to witness our wedding. I will miss our long conversations, his trust on me fixing his computer, and his funny jokes. I am grateful to be able to make this tribute video for his birthday on the 16th of April, 2018. Rest in peace, my dear friend. We’ll take good care of Phey. Here's the tribute video. https://youtu.be/nCzIfIaaYnk

  • 10/01/2021

    Condolence Sending you Lots of Love and Comfort,We are so Sorry for Bro,Paul Loss

  • 10/01/2021

    My dear Phey I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. He has definitely left an indelible impact. We hope our thoughts and prayers will support you at this time. Also to Paul’s relatives accept our deepest sympathy. May he Rest In Peace.

  • 10/01/2021

    This is the most recent picture of Paul with my father (Irwin) I have. It was taken in 2019. Paul was the most generous and kindest man. He was great to my Dad, and he held their relationship extremely special. And since my Dad passed, Paul had checked in on me regularly to see how I was holding up. Always thought of others. I hold dear the memories I do have. You are greatly missed already Paul. Rest in Peace. Saul Tallarico

  • 10/01/2021

    Paul and Phey at our wedding 8 years ago this month! A gorgeous smile that resembled your cheerful spirit.

  • 10/01/2021

    We are grateful for the deep love, kindness and admiration that Paul has demonstrated to our dear friend Phey. Paul, Phey is truly blessed to be the apple of your eyes and be the receiver of the gift that is you. May you be at peace. Sincerely, Camellia Santos and Family

  • 10/01/2021

    With a heavy heart, our deepest condolences to his wife -Phey and to the entire Tallarico's Family. Paul is a wonderful man, generous, pleasant and very witty, enjoyed his company over the years. I had the absolute pleasure seeing his nice trains, cars, books and even Mickey mouse collections -- that was very special. May he Rest in Peace and be reunited with those who have passed. Take care in Heaven. You'll be missed Paul.

  • 10/01/2021

    Paul-Tallarico is the greatest gift to me i got in my life time he is very genuine kind caring loving understanding person am so blessed knowing hlm and you are a super lovely wife I am a witness how much unlimited sacrifice of your care love and joyful moments you always do a great loving wife I always remember the memories I had with you both my gift is my love Phey you are always especial love you always Tita Rogie

  • 10/01/2021

    Phey, our deepest condolences on the passing of your wonderful husband, Paul. We pray that the Lord gives you strength and comfort during this time of grief. Philippians 4:13 - I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

  • 10/01/2021

    We will missed you our dear friend and mentor Paul. Thank you for the good memories we spent together with Phey. Rest In Peace

  • 10/01/2021

    What an absolute wonderful human being Paul was. I will always remember his countless ways of making me laugh. He had a great sense of humor and a friendly and kind demeanor. I can still remember him telling me at Ryan’s recent house warming party, to “simply just enjoy life!” It was just me and him. We were outside of the front door, the two of us just hanging out! Breaking bread ...Without any alcoholic beverages needed. Lol! (Joke for Paul) I also liked how he respected my automotive hobby. He understood that I was a car kind of guy and I was fortunate enough to gain his trust and drive his car that day. He was speechless when I knew how to use all the functions of his luxury vehicle.... Or maybe he was just speechless because he was concerned that in reality I was actually driving his car? (Another joke for Paul) Lol! My dear friend Paul and I shared conversations like no other. From providing me history lessons, motivation, educating me on life, sharing his life experiences, hobbies, his love for trains, his love for family, friends, and of course his ever lasting love for his lovely wife, Phey. Me being a “tad bit” younger than him, currently at 37 years of age, Lol! ....(I can picture him laughing out loud at this comment) He never once judged me for who I am, how I looked with tattoos, how at times we agree to disagree on certain topics, and he never once criticized my goals and accomplishments in life. He was an optimistic person who always had a positive attitude. I will always hold his friendship and memory deep in my heart and he will forever be missed. May you rest in peace my friend. Big Will

  • 10/01/2021

    Phey, thinking about you, sending love and prayers. The loss of someone we/you love is never easy. Especially around covid time when we cannot do the the normal ceremony we/you want to honor Paul. Let the memories you had with Paul surround you and the happiness you spent together. Please remember you are not alone. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort. :heart:Nancy & Family

  • 10/01/2021

    This photo was taken on January 11, 2020, when my good friend Paul attended my housewarming. I've known him for about 10 years through my best friend Phey. He's been mentoring me especially regarding my relationship with my fiancé. I remember, the last time I saw him was when I was looking for my wedding venue, and he told me he was very excited to witness our wedding. I will miss our long conversations, his trust on me fixing his computer, and his funny jokes. I am grateful to be able to make this tribute video for his birthday on the 16th of April, 2018. Rest in peace, my dear friend. We’ll take good care of Phey. Here's the link for the tribute video https://youtu.be/nCzIfIaaYnk

  • 10/01/2021

    We would like to express our sincere condolences to you ate and bro Paul family.Be strong.

  • 10/01/2021

    A favorite picture of mine; Paul, Irwin and myself, to share with relatives and friends of Paul who has left us suddenly but will not be forgotten, will be missed and thought of for many years to come, Jimmy.

  • 10/01/2021

    I extend my deepest sympathies to the family of Paul. My fiancé, Ryan, have told me a lot of good things about Paul & Phey, how they have been there for their friends. I wish I had the chance to meet such a great man. Heaven received another angel in Paul. May he rest in peace, and may the Lord bring the family, especially our dear friend Phey, much-needed peace during this sad time. - Ivy Gonzales

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  • 10/01/2021

    This photo was taken on January 11, 2020, when my good friend Paul attended my housewarming. I've known him for about 10 years through my best friend Phey. He's been mentoring me especially regarding my relationship with my fiancé. I remember, the last time I saw him was when I was looking for my wedding venue, and he told me he was very excited to witness our wedding. I will miss our long conversations, his trust on me fixing his computer, and his funny jokes. I am grateful to be able to make this tribute video for his birthday on the 16th of April, 2018. Rest in peace, my dear friend. We’ll take good care of Phey.

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