Born April 25, 1941 in Chicago, IL, and entered into rest on November 3, 2012 in Newark, CA at the age of 71. Devoted husband of 41 years to Roberta Thinggaard of Newark. Beloved father of Janice Harris and her husband Kirk of Newark. Treasured grandfather of Natasja Torres and her husband Edward, Alisha Perez, and Jeromy Harris. Loving great-grandfather to Annabelle, Adrian, and Edwards, Jr. Cherished brother of Laura Arseneau of Arlington Heights, IL.
Private family services are being held.
Donations may be made to the American Heart Association, PO Box 742030, Los Angeles, CA 90074-2030.
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10/01/2021
John Chadwick
I will miss you Ray. You were my mentor and friend. I was stopping by for a beer when you left us Saturday. God bless You my friend, we all miss you...
10/01/2021
Natasja
Gramps-
I miss you so much. You wont ever know how much i cared and loved you. We've had our laughs, and definitely had our arguments but you left us so soon! Its weird not having you next door anymore. I will always have a place for you in my heart, always! Love you gramps. - natasja
10/01/2021
charla Blackmon
Sorry to just find out about his demise. Did anyone assume his business?
10/01/2021
Laura Thinggaard Arseneau
I am so thankful to have been part of his coast to coast road trip in Sept. We spent two wonderful weeks together including 10 days in his pride & joy - the Mazda! I'll miss our long-distance communications. It's still so hard to accept his early departure. He was my baby bro.
10/01/2021
Bob and Emi Tabuchi
We were so sorry to read of Ray's passing. May warm memories of him give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Bob and Emi Tabuchi
Fremont, CA
10/01/2021
Kirk L. Harris
Ray, for 17 years you've been my father-in-law and for 15 of that you have been my father as I lost my dad in 1997. I couldn't have asked for a more wise and fun father to have had other than my own. Thanks for the laughs and great memories. You will be sorely missed, but never forgotten. Love you Ray
10/01/2021
Janice Thinggaard Harris
What do you say when you loose someone suddenly that meant the world to you -- taught you right from wrong, your morals, your values, & so many other things & in a blink of an eye & matter of seconds was taken from all of us -- & knowing he was in good health??
He's now also taught me we really need to enjoy & cherish life to the fullest, & do what we really want to achieve in life.... LIKE fulfill our DREAMS.
I am talking about my Dad and I lost you Dad on Saturday 11/3/12. You were a wonderful Dad to me, very special grandfather and great-grandfather to my children and grandchildren, and a very good friend to so many.
I will miss you dearly!!! It is such a shock & sad beyond words... Rest in Peace now Dad!!!! You may be gone, but I will never forget you & part of my heart is with you. I love you DaddyO!!e....
10/01/2021
Annette Gale
I am so saddened Ray, my friend for 45 years and my brother-in-law for 42 years. My heart is broken for the loss for your family. Your great-grandchildren will never get to know of your wisdom, sense of humor, and share fun times and your love like your grandchildren got to do. RIP my friend and I will miss you forever
10/01/2021
Leslie Arseneau Flores
I am very sadden we have lost you so early. You were my only Uncle. I always looked forward to your Chicago visits. It was great seeing you last month, sitting and talking for hours. I didn't want you to leave. You had a way to make me laugh without even cracking a smile. It's weird but my brother has that same ablilty. You will be missed dearly.
10/01/2021
A sympathy card has been sent to the family of Raymond Bruce Thinggaard c/o Fremont Chapel of the Roses funeral home.
10/01/2021
ROGER ARSENEAU
He was a great brother in law. I loved him very much. Seeing him in his trip to chicago last month was something I will never forget. I will miss him flying his plane to chicago. Ray was a special kind of guy.
Roger
10/01/2021
John Blacklock
I had the privilege of working with you for 7 great years, Ray, and I enjoyed our fun and friendship, especially pitching nickels and pennies. I still can't figure out how you always won. I am a better person for having known you.
10/01/2021
Linda Kubina
Roberta and family... we are so saddened by Ray's passing. Hoping that you find some comfort in the precious memories that each of you has shared. I treasure our friendship and numerous memories and cherish the smiles so many of those memories bring to me. So many years... and I am so thankful for the privilege of being his friend. Each of you are family and no words can express our sorrow for the grief you are now dealing with. We love you, very much.
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