Robert N. Toegemann, 64, of Fremont, California peacefully passed away at home on Tuesday, December 15, 2020. He was born on March 29, 1956 in Providence, Rhode Island,
He is survived by his wife, Laurin; 2 sons, Kyle and Ryan; 3 sisters, Irene Silva, Kristine Toegemann, and Terry Takesian. He is predeceased by his parents, Robert H. and Barbara Toegemann.
Bob was a special education teacher and worked in the San Leandro Unified and Fremont Unified school districts. Previous to becoming a teacher, he retired from the City of Redwood City. He was active as a parishioner of St. James Church, and Holy Spirit Church where he served on the Simbang Gabi committee.
He is remembered as a kind, caring, loving, giving, and humor-filled person.
A Memorial Service will be held when Covid-19 is under control, hopefully during the summer.
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10/01/2021
Robert K Wong
Laurin,
Did our weekly read of A Journey For Life and was so sad to learn of Bob's passing.
Such a great loss to you, Kyle and Ryan, and to everyone who was touched by Bob. He leaves behind such a wonderful family legacy of love, care and support for you, Kyle and Ryan. Your family put up the good fight here on Earth. Bob's new life Up Above will now be blessed with rest and peace.
We will sincerely miss our biannual meets. Seeing his name on the appointment schedule always brought us a huge smile and a chance to catch up on life. He was such a kind, funny and hardworking individual. We always looked forward to our visits.
Please take good care of yourselves.
With much love to you, Kyle and Ryan,
Robert and Judy Wong
10/01/2021
Ruth Pineo
We were so fortunate to have spent Thanksgiving with Bob, he was so strong sitting at the recliner, watching football. Thank you Laurin, Kyle and Ryan for inviting us to be with all of you. I knew Bob was a kind hearted, devote man from the very moment he attended my father's funeral service in 2017 at St. Bernard's Catholic Church. Bob did not know our family quite well yet since we just met the Toegemanns through Kyle and Ali's marriage. But Bob totally touched my heart that he was willing to attend and support me and my family at my dad's service, even though he did not even get to know my dad at all. I will never forget Bob's presence during one of the hardest times of my life. Now I bid him well and the glory of being at home, in peace, in heaven. Thank you for giving us the opportunity of seeing your smiling, laughing nature, and most importantly showing us your love for our Lord. Laurin, Kyle and Ryan, God bless you and you will always have Bob's love, laughter and joy forever.
Love,
The Pineo Family
10/01/2021
Ruth Pineo
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10/01/2021
Terry Takesian
To my wonderful big brother, The things I loved about you is pretty much everything. Your kind, thoughtful, generous, and loving ways. You were so good and always looked at the positive side of things. Your witty sense of humor put smiles on our faces. I remember our last time together here in Miami and will cherish that memory forever. To me, you are the best brother in the whole world. I love you and miss you. To my dear sister-in-law Laurin and nephews, Kyle and Ryan you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love Terry, Greg, and Zandra.
10/01/2021
Kristine Toegemann
My darling brother Bob, I will miss you dearly. Especially your great spirit for finding joy in the ordinary and your sense of humor. My deepest sympathy to your lovely wife Laurin and your wonderful sons Kyle and Ryan. Love Kristine Toegemann
10/01/2021
Peggy Patterson
Lit a candle in memory of Robert N. Toegemann
10/01/2021
Herb Hartl
Auntie Lauren, Kyle, and Ryan. My family and I are sending our deepest condolences to you and your family. Uncle Bobbie was a Amazing Man! I hope to someday be as good as a husband, father, and friend like Uncle Bobbie was!
10/01/2021
Peggy Patterson
Dearest Laurin,
You and Kyle and Ryan are in my prayers and the prayers of all the sisters at the Monastery of St. Clare in Boston. I will remember Bob as someone who was always very kind to me. May Jesus hold all of you in his heart during this difficult time and always.
Love,
Peggy
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